February 2013 — Ever wonder about the meaning behind the phrase "the look of love"? When you're gazing into your partner's eyes this Valentine's Day, pay some thought to the science behind love at first sight.
The connection between eyes and love is well-documented in poem and prose since time immemorial, the stuff of whimsical fairytales and heroic legends. But while beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, evidence increasingly suggests our brains are hardwired to both display and notice visual "clues" when it comes to a potential love interest.
One such indicator of visual attraction is larger pupils. Studies show that our pupils dilate when we feel excitement and attraction. When our gaze falls on a person or object of interest to us, the brain releases a surge of dopamine (a chemical messenger that helps control the brain's reward and pleasure centers), which triggers pupil dilation.
Men perceive women with larger pupils as more romantically appealing. A 2007 study published inHormones and Behavior showed that a woman's pupils dilate the widest during ovulation. From a biological perspective, because this characteristic is developed under the influence of estrogen, it signifies youth and therefore fertility. Research suggests that men instinctively use such indicators, among other visual cues, to assess the "value" of potential partners — as a way to seek fertile and healthy mates.
Similarly, researchers at Edinburgh University found that women at their monthly fertility peak are most attracted to men with larger pupils. According to the study published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences, larger pupils signal a man's interest, and therefore he is more indicated as a partner because interest is mutual. Conversely, the study found that when women are not at their most fertile, men's pupil size make very little difference when looking for a mate.
Lingering eye contact also is a strong indicator for a potential love match. A 2009 study published inArchives of Sexual Behavior found that a man who rated a woman as attractive held eye contact for an average of 8.2 seconds, which increased his chances of "love at first sight," researchers said. If a man's gaze was around 4 seconds, the research suggests he was less than impressed.
When it comes to eye color and attraction, green eyes are seen as most attractive, according to an AllAboutVision.com eye color poll of more than 46,000 people. But when it comes to matters of the heart, research suggests most people do not have an eye color preference. In fact, it appears "the look of love" is all about the pupils.
So this February 14th, look into your Valentine's eyes — chances are his or her pupils will be dilated! — A.S.
Source:http://www.allaboutvision.com/resources/anatomy.htm#lookoflove

